I suffered a miscarriage with my first baby. My mother and sisters also suffered miscarriages. And my eldest daughter also lost a baby to miscarriage. These were devastating and heartbreaking events for all of us and our families.
The emotional pain that results from miscarriages is often misunderstood. Friends and family, although well-intentioned, say things that are not hopeful or helpful. Here are just a few:
“At least you are young and you can get pregnant again.” Age has nothing to do with it and because a woman is pregnant once, twice or three times…it doesn’t mean she can conceive another time.
“At least you have a child.” This implies the person is being selfish because they are asking for more than one child, or that the child they have can replace the child they have lost.
“At least you lost the baby now and not after he or she was born.” This is not comforting! I know that much has been debated about ‘when life begins’; however, it’s suffice to say that it is not unusual for an emotional and heart-to-heart attachment between mom and baby to occur almost instantly.
For moms and dads, grandmothers and grandfathers, friends and extended family… there is an amazing website www.babylosscomfort.com that offers grief resources and information on what to say and do when someone you know has experienced the loss of a child. Information on pregnancy loss (tubal, infertility, stillbirth, miscarriage) support, music, and appropriate gifts and cards are also offered on this site.
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